The same logic that blames individuals for being fat is used to maintain the status quo and keep people from living the way they want.

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If I offered you a piece of chocolate cake, how would you decide if you should eat it? Would you weigh up the pros (deliciousness) against the cons (an extra layer of fat on your hips and an increased risk of developing type 2 diabetes)? If you eat the cake, does that mean you’ve decided the deliciousness of the cake is more important than the associated weight gain and health risks?

How Economists Claim We Decide

According to economists, that is exactly what happens: whenever we make a decision, we weigh up the benefits and the costs and make our choice accordingly. Economists claim we are completely rational in our decision making, and we always make the ‘best’ choices. We choose whichever option optimises our wellbeing (i.e. whichever option ‘wins’ in the cost-benefit analysis). By this logic, we decide to be fat by deliberately choosing a delicious and convenient diet at the expense of our long-term health. …


Your partner has made something unpalatable for dinner, or your child has dug up something tetanus-inducing from outside. To take the conversation further, you need to know how to ask what on Earth that is.

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He aha tēnei? He kurī tēnā.

Three New Words

First, let’s learn a few words:


The recession is here, business owners are walking out on leases they can’t afford, tourism is struggling to maintain even the ghost of its former self, but the one thing still going strong is the housing market.

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Auckland at night (when you can’t see the house prices)

The resilience of the housing market shouldn’t come as a surprise. In uncertain times, people look to areas of certainty. The world’s population continues to grow while the amount of land remains fixed, which makes housing a pretty certain investment under most conditions.

With no capital gains tax, rental income able to be offset against interest payments on your mortgage, and many other financial benefits, housing has always been a tempting investment for anyone with spare cash. During this Covid-induced recession, when other options have grown less certain, property investment will likely become even more popular. …


Four big mistakes that all beginning writers make — avoid them in your writing!

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When I first started writing novels, I thought it would be easy. I’ve read a lot of books, so I should know exactly how to write a good one.

I quickly learned that reading makes an author the same way that watching rugby makes a professional rugby player. It turns out that the only way to actually become an author or a professional rugby player is constant, dedicated practice.

Having said that, there are four big mistakes that all (or at least most) beginner writers make. …


Chapter one is where your reader decides if they’ll keep reading, or put your book down and move onto something else.

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The Look Inside feature of Amazon makes the first chapter a crucial sales tool for self-published and ebook authors, and if you’re looking to be traditionally published, chapter one is often the make-or-break point for agents and publishers deciding whether to keep reading or to reject your book without bothering to find out what happens. Once it’s in the bookstore, the first page is often a key component of deciding whether or not to buy the book.

With so much riding on the first chapter, it’s essential that it is done well, otherwise, you’ll be left with a novel that is unsold and unread, regardless of the quality of your remaining chapters. …


If you’d love to speak more reo Māori, but you’re embarrassed about your pronunciation, Italian opera could be the solution you need.

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Are you envious of the people around you using more and more reo Māori in their greetings and introductions? You may be yearning to join their ranks, but worried that your pronunciation is not up to scratch.

Let’s fix that.

Introducing Yourself: Working on your Pepeha

Let’s work on the pronunciation in the pepeha you give when you’re introducing yourself and saying where you’re from.

Here’s how to say where you are from:

“Nō _________ ahau.”

means ‘from’, ahau means ‘I’, and the blank is where you fill in the location. …


The dream of becoming your own boss is near irresistible, but the reality is often worse than that 9–5 you’re desperate to escape

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Whether it’s escaping the grind of a job you hate or wanting to make it on your own after struggling to find a job at all, there are many reasons people try to become their own boss.

But for every person who’s successfully made the transition, there are hundreds who haven’t. These failed entrepreneurs are left stressed, out-of-pocket, and with the by-products of their failed dreams to deal with, whether it’s a failed relationship, an overwhelming debt to repay, or simply the weight of knowing that their dream never happened.

Why do so many people fail in their goal of financial independence? The danger lies precisely in the way we form our vision of what it means to ditch the boss. The key, then, is to rethink the way we approach becoming our own boss. …


You’re showered, you’re dressed, you’ve cleaned your teeth, you’re totally going to make it to work on time. You’re half-way out the door when you realise you can’t find your phone, your keys, or your wallet. Again. You’re going to be late. Again. There is only one thing that makes this situation worthwhile: knowing how to ask where your stuff is in Māori!

You will need FOUR MINUTES to master this. Imagine, in just four minutes time, you’re going to know how to ask where stuff is in Māori!

Let’s do it.

The First Minute: HEA

The first word we need is hea. (Click for pronunciation). …


Today, New Zealand is making a commitment to learn te reo Māori.

Learning a new language can feel overwhelming, especially if you’ve got unhappy memories from your school days. But if you take things slowly, practice a little but practice often, you’ll find that overtime your ability to speak, read, listen and understand the language will grow and grow. In reality, regular bite-sized chunks will get you further than diving in at the deep end and running out of steam after a day or two.

So, if your goal is to learn the Māori language, here is a bite sized chunk to get you started. …


The Māori language is unique to New Zealand (although it shares roots with several languages of the Pacific), and is one of the treasures that makes this such a special place. In spite of this, many New Zealanders do not know much about it, and can only speak a few words.

Here are four facts about te reo Māori that you probably didn’t know:

1: Sentence structure is much easier than in English

If I ask you a question in English, for example: ‘How are you?’ The order of that question is:

1: The question word (‘how’) 2: The verb (‘are’) and 3: The subject (‘you’). …

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Julie Sandilands

Economist-in-training, writer, business owner, really slow runner.

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